What is The Lifestyle

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What is a Swinger?

A Swinger is someone who takes part in "Ethical Non-Monogamy". That means they have sex with more than one partner. The "stereotypical" Swinger is a married Man and Woman looking for another married Man and Woman. But The Lifestyle is all encompassing. We invite anyone into our group. Gays, Lesbians, Couples, Single Females. NOT SINGLE MEN. 

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Why do we keep talking about "The Lifestyle"?

The Lifestyle is Swingers but are focused on the people and not just the sex. Very Sex Positive.

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Is Swinging cheating?

According to dictionary.com a cheater is a person who acts dishonestly, deceives, or defrauds.

Real swingers are not guilty of this in any way because we bring our partners with us when we swing.

Let us now look at swinging.  Swinging is done with your partner.  The couple enters the lifestyle and chooses to seek out a sexual relationship with another couple or a single swinger.  It doesn't really matter why the couple has decided to do this, but rather the fact that it is done in plain view of each other.  There are no secrets or deceptions here.  If you watch a couple playing with another couple, you will usually see the spouses interacting with each other while they are playing with someone else.  A hand on their shoulder, a kiss, a helpful hand down there, whatever it is, you will see that this is something they are doing together.  That is very different from sneaking into a hotel room while your spouse is at work or with the kids to have sex with someone else.  Even when swingers decide to play separately, they do it with permission from their partner.

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What kind of people are in The Lifestyle? Is it just a bunch of weirdos?

If your here, your a weirdo too. LOL. No, very few are a weirdo. At Lifestyle events, I have met law enforcement, politicians, over religious, atheists, good people, bad, people, family people, career people, and more than you can think of. The Lifestyle accepts everyone. We don't judge anyone here. A "Golden Rule" we have when talking to people is "Stay away from the Resume". When talking about yourself, don't tell the people where you life, what you do for a job. Unless you want to. If you are talking with someone, guess what; stay away from the resume

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Can you be Bi or Gay in the Lifestyle?

Of course! BUT, openly gay is not accepted in certain circles. It's a work in progress. The typical "situation" is a married man and woman searching for another married man and woman. But anything between that and beyond that is awesome!

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What kinks are allowed?

All of them! We encourage you to explore all your kinks. We have people that are into

• Hotwife

• Daddy / Mommy

• Little

• BDSM

• Master / Slave

• Dom / Sub

• Cuckold

• Bull

• Pegging

• Fisting

• Foot Worship

• Leatherman / Women

• More kinks and fetishes!