You gotta do homework before you play

 

When you are at an event and you see a couple you are interested in, go talk to them.  Always approach with respect. Don’t be pushy. Remember to stay away from the “resume”.  Talk about the what not the who. Use your elevator pitch!! Be honest. Remember that if they say no, or ask for a minute to discuss, this is not a rejection.  Don’t take it personally. Be mature in all interactions that you have. Treat others how you would want to be treated. The same rules apply if you are telling someone no.  Say it kindly. There is no reason to be rude.