Should you two Swing?

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We can't answer that

We would love to say "YES! We want to see you naked!" But, it's up to both of you. Can your relationship handle the stress of the Lifestyle. If your relationship has any "holes", they will be exposed. Many of our friends say that since they have been in The Lifestyle, their relationship communication has increased.

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Is this right for you

Are you thinking about swinging to try and fix your relationship?  If you answered yes, then it’s not right for you. Are you doing it to explore your sexuality as a couple/single? If yes, then this is the place for you. Swinging is a activity meant to bring you closer to your spouse/SO, It’s not meant to be something you do to repair holes in your relationship.  It is also not meant to be something you do alone, while not telling your SO. Swinging is for those who are in an honest relationship, and both partners want to explore. It may also not be something you should do if you and/or your SO has a lot of jealousy or insecurities about your relationship.

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What do you want to get out of Swinging

For a lot of people they are looking to try new things, or to explore fantasies together in a safe environment.  Some may have only ever had their SO for a partner, and want to experience more. Some just realize that for whatever reason they don’t want to be with just one person sexually for the rest of their lives.  Whatever your personal reasons are, it’s very important to talk with each other, a lot!! Communication is lubrication!! When you think you have talked enough, talk some more. Always remember that at the end of the night you are going home with your SO.  So be sure to debrief and talk about each encounter you have. You may even find that swinging actually brings you closer together, and that lines of communication have never been more open. The sex you have with your SO is also quite likely to get even hotter.  

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Religion

For a lot of people the act of swinging can bring up feelings of shame.  Sometimes it’s from their sense of morality and sometimes it’s from their belief system.  For me I was raised Christian, and still practice to this day. So that begs the question can you be religious and still swing?  The answers and the reason behind them will likely look different for everyone. I don’t personally see it as cheating or adultery because my SO and are both on the same page.  The answer for everyone is different. My stance on the subject is purely my own, and should not be taken as the standard for others. It is up to each individual to decide how they feel and wish to proceed.

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Age. Are you to young or too old?

On the subject of age, let’s just dive right in.  There are certainly a lot of mainstream activities where a person’s age is one of the deciding factors for whether or not it is deemed appropriate for them to participate.  I am happy to say that the Lifestyle in NOT one of them. Swingers come in all ages. We have seen people of all ages, races, and walks of life in the Lifestyle. It is one of the few activities where something exists for everyone.