Friends of Ellis
No Single Males
You will be asked to leave
Ideas to stay safe
Set realistic expectations
Fact: Never trust anyone who spells Gonorria right on the first try.
STD’s are in the world. We play a dangerous game here. Stay protected.
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Are You Clean?
Great Rule of Thumb. Get tested yearly, or more depending on how often you play. “I have a piece of paper from my doctor saying they only thing I’m giving you is a good time.” Be honest. If you have, or had, something, disclose it to your potential partners.
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Are They Clean?
Before you play with a couple ask them if anyone in their network has anything of concern. Don’t wait till after.
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Use Condoms
You don't need to explain why you have another kid, You don't need to explain why you didn't use a condom. Most clubs provide them but they are the basic cheap stuff. Get the good stuff, get the brand you like. Many women are sensitive to Latex. Ask before you play. Maybe she has a condom for you.
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Use Trust Dams.
Used to be called dental dams but there are companies out there that are redesigning them specifically for oral play. Or back door play.
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Use Gloves
It’s OK to play a sexy nurse and doctor the first few times with a new couple. Or every time with a couple.