Friends of Ellis
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What is this and why?
This is for you! We have compiled hours of conversations with Swingers and Swinging experience into a website that people can navigate. Our hope is that this information builds a stronger community. Hopefully minimizing the learning curve for new couples. We promote Ethical Non-Monogamy and a Sex Positive Lifestyle.
Welcome to the lifestyle! If you are new or thinking about joining the lifestyle, start at our Should We Swing Page. We hope that will answer all your questions. If not, join our Discord Chat and ask to your hearts content.
If you are already in the lifestyle, well, the same goes for you too. A refresher is always great.
If you are a couple or a Unicorn, Join us at our next Meet and Greet! See you soon! -John and Tiffany.
What this is not.
This is not a dating site. You don't have to pay anything to participate. We don't have profiles. We only ask for your name and email to send you our monthly newsletters. Subscribe at the bottom of the page.
What does it mean to be "Friends of Ellis"?
It means a few things. Foremost, it means you are active in The Lifestyle. (You are a Swinger)
The biggest thing it means is you are"Sex Positive"
Sex Positive: Having or promoting an open, tolerant, or progressive attitude towards sex and sexuality.
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Mobile Chat Group
The Official Friends of Ellis Group Chat is available on Discord on PC or mobile devices. Join the fun!
Couples and Single Females Only.
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What does "Friends of Ellis" Mean?
Ellis = L. S. = LifeStyle = Swinger
It's a way to know each other in the vanilla world.
Welcome to the Swinging Lifestyle! We are based in Spokane, WA but have Friends of Ellis in Seattle, CDA, Idaho, Portland, Washington, Canada, INW, The Northwest.... But the information on this website is for anyone in, or looking to start in The Lifestyle.
We are a group of Swingers that started chatting on KIK. KIK is a mobile chat program that limits groups to 50 people. We we moved over to Discord, another mobile messaging app. Discord is also available on PC too. So, we decided to claim a corner of the internet and invite anyone else in the area and beyond to our group. We have daily picture themes, notify everyone else of hot dates and more. You must be 21+. We also have MONTHLY Meet and Greets! Every single month! If we have enough donations, we will throw a bigger party, like a takeover somewhere.
We have members that have have managed events at The Idaho White Rose, Multi-hotel takeovers around the Northwest. Others are professional counselors, in the BDSM Lifestyle, some are plain vanilla. This is the group to be in if you want to be part of The Lifestyle!
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Take a look around the site. We have set it up for the newbie in The Lifestyle. The owners have been doing Swingers 101 for years and are active in The Lifestyle. If you are experienced, you might learn something new in the lingo, rules, or next steps.
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If you have any questions, feel free to email and we will get back to you.