Now your at a party, now what

 

Ok so you found a couple you like, awesome.  Before jumping right in to ask them to a room, talk a bit.  Find out if you click. Are your rules similar? If not, can everyone work within each others rules and boundaries comfortably.  Are you both fully engaged in the idea? If everything is heading in the right direction, politely ask them if they would like to join you in a room.  Before you head off into a room, don’t forget the necessities. Condoms, Dental Dams, Gloves, Lube, ect….Remember, safety first!! Also if you happen to be at an off premise event and find a couple you want to hook up with, be sure to work out the when, where, and time you will meet up before each of you leaves. You may also want to get at least basic contact info for them, in the event that something happens, or plans have changed.