About us

We are a Swingers and Lifestyle group based in Spokane, WA.

My wife and I have been in The Lifestyle close to 9 years now. We started out doing webcams with other couples online. That morphed into attending meet and greets that lead to house parties. Then we moved to Spokane. We didn't know much about The Lifestyle. Where to go, what the scene is like, how to meet people etc... Sure there are a couple clubs here. But clubs don't often produce real people. 

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We started this "Friends of Ellis" concept for two reasons.

• Educate the new crowd. 

  • ​At our Meet and Greets we have a Swingers 101 for the newbies and experienced alike. (It's never bad to go over the rules)

• Become the place to go for anything Lifestyle. 

  • ​Where do you meet people? Right here! We will start building the best local database for all the different groups, as well as our own groups too.

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Friends of Ellis is run by volunteers. Friends that are new to the life style, old to the lifestyle, no longer play but love the people, have some free time, etc.... They are all wonderful people and we can't run this without them! Ask who they are at the next event, we will point them out. They always love a great flash!