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• “Bi” (Bisexual) - Play’s with the other sex too. Others are bi-curious, bi-comfortable & bi-situational.

• Voyeur - Likes to watch.

• Exhibitionist - Likes to be watched.

• Unicorn - A single woman.

• Unicock - A single man.

• On Premise - Have sex at the event.

• Off Premise - No sex at the event.

• Vanilla - Non Swingers.

• Softswap - No vaginal penetration.

• Fullswap - Vaginal penetration.

• Same Room - TWO MEANINGS

  • Same room same partners.

  • Same room swap partners.

• Separate Room - Swap partners and find different rooms.

• Monogamous - Love and Sex with only one person. NON SWINGERS or Vanilla.

• Polyamorous - Love and sex with more than one person.

• Open Relationship - Open to any kind of relationship at any time.

• Hall Pass - One time pass to do something. (Usually sex without the partner)

• Cheating- Swinging is not cheating.

It's not cheating if you both have permission.

You are here with your spouse, you both have talked about this AND AGREED! To come and explore it together

• Orgy - A group play scenario where everyone is touching and interacting together regardless of who is connected to whom.

• MFM - Male/Female/Male sexual encounter

• FMF - Female/Male/Female sexual encounter

• Meet and Greet (M&G)- This is mostly an event to meet other swingers and socialize with them.  Often includes dancing.  Can be at a public venue, or can be an exclusive event.  Usually sexual activity is not condoned.

• HWP - Height/Weight Proportional.  These people may not have “perfect” bodies (if there is such a thing), but are in the average weight range for their height.  People often refer to this in their profiles on swing dating sites or a club owner may say that those attending must be HWP.

• Friends With Benefits (FWB) - Not just a “sex only” transaction, but an ongoing relationship.

• DDF - Drug and disease free

• Lifestlye Fluid - People who are comfortable with The Lifestyle but rarely, if ever, participate.